How To Tell When People Are Lying to You (in a crisis)

Sarah Davis
By Sarah Davis June 6, 2017 09:33

How To Tell When People Are Lying to You (in a crisis)

Why Do People Lie?

People lie for various reasons such as, but not limited to: appear credible, appeal to someone, obtain something or get their way or even to diffuse dangerous situations. After all, the tendency to lie is part of the human personality and some people are going to lie more than others. It’s important to recognize when you’re being lied to especially when in a situation where law or rules aren’t followed and chaos wreaks havoc. lie detection infographic microexpressions

Learning about lying and deception is important because it will be a matter of life or death to determine who to trust when SHTF. Follow closely as we go through the different signs of liars usually show, as well as misconceptions about the subject.

Eye Movements

It is common to think that someone that blinks often is a liar. However, since it is a common piece of knowledge for those familiar with lying, they may react differently in the moment of lying. For example, not blinking as often as anyone else. Another example that takes those keen on detail to discover is that the pupil becomes larger for those who engage in lying.reading the eye movements lie vs. truth

Another thing to pay attention to is that it’s been noted that individuals will usually look away  when lying – which over time it has only become a myth. For example, before being properly documented, this ‘tip’ has caused poor performance among law enforcement officers and the FBI has gone as far as removing that tip from their training.eye movements lie vs. truth

Looking away isn’t very uncommon and most people will look up when picturing something in their head. But what gives off a lie is that a person will specifically look up and then to the left. This is a method that has been researched to be worked with the training of those FBI trainees who eventually become agents for the Behavioral Analysis Unit and law enforcement officers. Additionally, the Global Deception Team sampled thousands of individuals in 75  countries and uncovered that most people are not able to detect lies because they believe myths that are often shared about lying.

Speech

The University of Edinburgh of Scotland completed a research on verbal cues and what is often believed to be perceived as the truth or a lie. Most people believe that there are a lot of “ums” and broken sentences when it comes to telling a lie. While that is sometimes the case, liars are more likely to carefully control what they are saying by speaking slower. In fact, one of the oldest tips about lying is that people are more likely to speak without contractions. And that’s true because they’ll say “I did not do it,” instead of “I didn’t do it.” By relying on speech only and no other observation of the individual, there’s a little less than 50% chance of knowing if someone’s lying or not.microexpressions spot the lie

It is also important to pay attention on how a person tells their story. Liars are more likely to tell their story in chronological order because they’ve rehearsed it in their minds. They are also less likely to admit that they’ve forgotten something when repeating their stories. In order to determine the validity of a story, accredited professionals (i.e.:law enforcement officers and the military) employ the Criteria-Based Content Analysis method by asking the culprit to recount their stories several times in order to examine story-line. This is the most accurate way of distinguishing between truthful and fabricated criminal allegations.

When caught with a lie, an individual may begin to refuse to talk or may even flee if it is serious enough. Since some people are more likely to lie, it is important to be wary of outgoing people who are more intelligent. Researchers have found that these individuals are a lot more likely to lie than anyone else.

Body Language

Body language is the easiest part that can be “read”and, therefore, it must be taken with a grain of salt depending on what matter is being assessed. It has become common knowledge that a liar will have visible responses such as tapping and more sweating. That isn’t entirely incorrect, but keep in mind that the personality of a person can influence them even if they are telling the truth. A more timid person may show similar responses to the stress brought from questioning.lie detection infographic

However, because stress is a part of the behavior someone is lying this section is still important. The stance of a person is a big cue that indicates if someone is lying or not. When someone is lying, that person may stand on what is called a “closed stance” that is with their arms crossed or if they are sitting they may cross their legs as well. A liar may even begin playing with their hair or touching their face more often than usual. They may also begin tapping their feet where they are standing or sitting, this is a very common occurrence.

Tips For The Future

Don’t feel discouraged at all when practicing lie detection. It is important to make your own checklist that you can keep mentally. Once a person meets more and more criteria they are more likely to be lying.

Also, researchers have found that the more practice a person does in lying recognition the more effective they become. While other researchers showed that law enforcement officers and ordinary people were very similar in finding out who is lying before acquiring some training. If you’ve read this article to this point you know more than the average person about lying and now you can detect possible myths with actual proven methods.

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18 Comments

  1. Barney June 6, 13:16

    Too bad that the remembered answer and the indication in the article are backwards: the article states this: But what gives off a lie is that a person will specifically look up and then to the left.

    The constructed version shows the person looking up and to the right while the remembered drawing shows the person looking up and to the left.

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  2. JB June 6, 14:21

    It’s up and away from the dominant hand is lying. I’ve had people write or draw something to tell which hand is dominant.

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  3. suzie queue June 6, 16:31

    I think the article is based on incorrect assumptions by law enforcement. All the things that they listed as lying can be done by someone who is truthful, but under a lot of stress – especially under certain specific circumstances such as:
    1. Suspicion of a crime
    2. General unbelief

    I have been accused of lying many times when I was telling the truth. In fact, I am so truthful, that I get myself in trouble for not being politically correct, tactful, or for CYA – mine or someone else’s.

    If I see that someone is looking cynical or doubtful of something I am saying, I fidget, or roll my eyes about and sigh heavily, or raise my voice and “construct” my sentence – for emphasis – and repeat it slowly again, just to make my point. If I am made to wait for a long time, I cross my arms or put my hands in my pockets or pace, too. Doesn’t make me a liar. The fact is, unless you can read minds, even a lie detector can’t always tell when someone is lying – (especially a sociopath).

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    • Older prepper June 6, 18:47

      suzie queue; Thank you! I was raised in a home, where I was not allowed to talk or express an opinion, if I did, I was mocked and laughed at and told, ‘How dumb I was’. Being raised like this, makes me more afraid of people. I blink a lot, (mostly for dry eyes) and I have a difficult time LOOKING SOMEONE DIRECTLY in the eye. I my culture, that was disrespectful to the person talking. Bold, Brazen. So, I have a difficult time doing that. I look away a lot. Like you, I am very truthful and sincere, but because I can’t look a person direct in the eyes (afraid, kowed)) some may think I am lying. I realize these are just examples,but we have a 50/50 chance of being wrong or right, without all of these ‘clues’.
      Bill Clinton. ‘I DID NOT HAVE SEXUAL RELATIONS WITH THAT WOMAN”! Looking straight into the camera ‘eye’. Then try to make the woman out to be a liar. Obama, another polished liar. Everything HE said was a lie, yet some people believed him.

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      • Older prepper June 6, 19:33

        P.S. in time of CRISIS, just believe, that EVERYONE IS LYING! EASY . LOL

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      • left coast chuck June 6, 23:47

        Older Prepper: That is known as a “lawyer lie.” It is a lie that doesn’t reach the level of perjury. In the Clinton case, it relied heavily on a very narrow definition of “sexual relations.” Within that very narrow definition, no, he did not have “sexual relations.” To anyone in the real world, try to convince your spouse you didn’t have “sexual relations” if you had done the conduct that Clinton did. If you can do that, I wish I still had my company because you are the greatest salesman in the world and you could have made me a billionaire.

        Another famous lawyer lie is, “Your president is not a crook.” “Crook” being narrowly defined as someone who has been convicted of a crime involving theft. Even if convicted of the crime he actually did commit he would still be able to boast that he was not a crook based on the narrow definition above.

        Lawyer lies are a fine art form and are practiced daily by many professions. I had a lawyer lie told to me by a doctor when I upbraided him that he had told me something different during our pre-surgery interview. He responded, “I know exactly what I told you.” Instantly I knew I was going to hear a canned lawyer lie which had been memorized in order to mislead patients. Anytime you hear “I know exactly what I told you,” you can expect to see a shining example of a lawyer lie.

        On the other hand, “If you like your doctor you can keep your doctor” didn’t rise to the level of a lawyer lie, it was just a plain old straight out lie. The whole concept that you can provide medical care to a vast group of very ill people without an increase in costs is such a monstrous lie that it rises to the level of “Arbeit Mach Frei.”

        And then there is the whole field of statistics. “There are lies, damned lies and statistics,” according to Mark Twain and he hit the nail directly on the head. Like so many professional fields, you can buy a statistician who can provide figures to prove anything you want to prove. Do I have a jaundiced view of the truth? You betcha. I spent too many years in court listening to lies, damned lies and statistics.

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        • Older prepper June 12, 19:34

          Left coast chuck. RIGHT ON!

          It is sad that, we don’t know the truth, till AFTER, the doctor pulled his scam on us. They also lie by OMISSION. We as lay people, do not know everything in the medical field, to Know, what to ask! Then they put it on the patient. “You should have asked.”
          “WORK MAKES FREEDOM.”

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  4. Tim June 7, 04:52

    Two things.

    One of the actions often associated with liars is crossing the arms. That may very well true in the general population, but there is one group I know of that it never applies to: Mormons. From a very early age, Mormon children are taught to cross their arms. It helps to control active children while in church, and teaches them to show respect while in the Lord’s house.

    A group of people that most of those tips don’t apply to, are those with Asperger’s Syndrome. A key feature of these people is body language. They usually cannot read it, and seldom use it properly. For example, for them, eye contact is very hard, and sometimes impossible. I have often been thought to be lying, when, in fact, I almost NEVER lie (lack of tact and diplomacy is another hallmark, which has often gotten me in trouble), all because of the lack of eye contact.

    It took me many years of adult life before I realized how much “normal” people lie, on a daily basis.

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    • Older prepper June 12, 19:50

      TIM . Yes. In time of crisis, I would just assume, EVERYONE IS LYING. Since, we do the white lie, so much in our daily lives, why would we, NOT LIE IN A CRISIS? The excuse about ” traffic”, when in fact that person do not plan their TIME very well. “Something came up.” Yeah, lack of courtesy to show up on time. It especially galls me, when people start to tell you, they got a phone call, or someone came over, instead of telling them, they had a prior appointment,,with YOU! They might as well say, “you are not important only their issues are”. One person who called for the Visiting teaching time, HER TIME, and I made my time, for that schedule, stood me up. Her excuse was she started to weed her garden and did not want to stop.

      People start asking you , how much do you have in storage? I would say, none or hardly any. What is the purpose of asking you? Who to rob?

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  5. pelagiaeast June 7, 12:32

    Wish the chart of How to Detect a Lie was improved so the text would be readable! Or maybe send me a better copy?
    thanks

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  6. JC June 7, 15:21

    “Truisms”, if you will :
    People LIE, all day, every day, to SURVIVE!
    Women say, they want an “HONEST” man. Well, life as you know it, will end! Thirty seconds after you answer the question : “Honey, does this dress, make me look fat?”! (it doesn’t matter, that you shout “NO!”. If there’s the slightest interval of time, between question and answer!).
    Survival, begins at home!
    The best indication of lying politicians, lawyers, and salespeople… their lips, are moving!
    The consequences, of lies and liars, are NOT easily predicted : “It’s not my fault”! “I didn’t do it”! “I don’t know”! “I’m ok, you’re ok”, “There are no bad children, only bad parents”, “You’re entitled…”, has been pounded into us, since before our parents were sperm!
    Disaster, brings out the BEST, (and worst), in humanity, in equal measure! People WILL change, the person you have worked and socialized with, for years, will gut you for your shoelaces, under the right circumstances. Your Governor will ignore the “Posse Comitatus Act”, and send the police and National Guard to your home and confiscate your weapons, when you need them most! (Oh yeah, our last President, has removed that annoying impediment to “Martial law”, now things will only get worse… I wasn’t born a Pessimist, life made me that way!

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    • Older prepper June 12, 19:57

      JC. EXCELLENT. lol You are just in reality! GOOD JOB.
      Not pessimist, realist. I never asked my husband how I looked. I had a mirror. Women really ask that?

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  7. Tranquil August 2, 16:40

    Being an Corrections Officer for many years and lied to constantly on a daily basis, I would have to validate some parts of the article to be spot on. Lie detection comes from experience such as an auto mechanic listening to your car run and telling you what your problem is and/or a medical doctor listening to your back and chest with a stethoscope making an “observation” from experience. It’s up to the person your talking too on how much experience they have in deception and how much experience you have in uncovering the truth. How well you know the person is a major part of the detection, while on the other hand by research everyone will refrain from certain elements of the conversation when lying or after being caught in a lie. It just take years of experience, like an artist.

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    • left coast chuck August 29, 19:26

      The term “con” referring to an inmate in a prison does not derive from “convict” but from the slang term “conned” meaning being deceived. As Tranqil pointed out, inmates in prison con the guards on a continuing basis. It is almost, if the inmates lips are moving, he (or she’s) lying if they are talking to a C.O. Just like a politician or a bureaucrat.

      If it is an emergency situation, you can bet everything you own on being lied to by politicians and bureaucrats and you won’t go broke.

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  8. roger October 17, 02:42

    I’m still waiting on a printed copy of the Lost Ways. It’s been about a year now, I guess it got lost on it’s way.

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